My House Rules....
MY Rules are quite simple. In addition to any pronouncement or decision I make at any time, I expect ALL slaves and submissives to follow MY Rules, Directions and Decrees without hesitation.

If you book a session with me you must keep the appointment or phone and cancel it. If you don't keep to this rule then I take it as a personal disrespect to ME and you will never ever be allowed to session with me.


Courtesy and Etiquette for when first introduced into MY Presence:

When I enter MY lounge I expect my slave to stand and greet me with a gentle shake of the hand. After I sit, the submissive will follow suit.

You will refer to ME as "MISTRESS" or "MISTRESS HELLENA" at ALL times.

I allow MY submissives the privilege of an informal chat and consultation before the session commences. ALL fetishes and fantasies need to be delivered succintly and you MUST be clear about what you like and dislike.

If you struggle to do this, feel free to write these down prior to your appointed time. I may decide to complete a slave questionnaire during the consultation.

You MUST be clean and presentable upon entering MY premises.

Shower facilities are available before your session. If you know in advance that these facilities will be needed, arrive 15 minutes early. Uncleanliness will not be tolerated - this includes fresh smelling breath and that your hands and nails are thoroughly clean.

Worship will NOT be allowed under any other circumstance!

I expect slaves to relate how they like to behave in session during the consultation. I want to know whether you enjoy verbal inteaction or whether you prefer to be silent unless spoken to. Either is acceptable. Sometimes quietness and non-interaction can be construed as you not enjoying the session, which can make the session more difficult for your Mistress.

Courtesy and Etiquette during the session....

Again I expect to be addressed as "MISTRESS" or "MISTRESS HELLENA" at ALL times.

It shows respect and reverence on your part.

I expect slaves to give some feedback during their session. This may be exhibited through body language, moans and groans, flinching, sighing, crying or laughing, as well as ALL other forms of communication.

Even if you are an introverted individual who likes to relinquish total control to their Mistress, I require some kind of interaction and expect the requisite skills learned for future visits. This enables your Mistress to understand if SHE is going in the right direction or not. I believe that this input from both parties is invaluable to making a successful session.

If you do not wish to have any interaction at all during the session, this MUST be clearly related during your consultation.

After the session, I will entertain the slave for a 10 minute review period. Shower facilities and refreshments are always available before you arrive and leave.

My Preferences and other things I like....
While this is not an exhaustive list by any stretch of the imagination, it should serve to give some idea as to MY preferences and the characteristics I find pleasing in submissives.

I like to fully understand MY submissive, knowing their fetishes and fantasies before we begin our session. Once a session is booked with Me, be prepared to have a candid, frank and confidential consultation beforehand.

Obviously this time is not included as part of the session at all, and is a free and personally designed service I deign to provide for my submissives.

I enjoy the company of true, sincere and loyal submissives, who strive to worship their Mistress in any way they can. I understand that domination is not just about a single hour session, and believe that true submissives know this as well.

I enjoy experimenting with and stretching My own capabilities and imagination with new ideas as much as I enjoy doing this to My submissives. I welcome more idiosyncratic fetishes and fantasies.

I desire the psychological aspects of domination as much as the physical. I believe that a session can be more liberating, releasing, exciting and lead to a more cathartic experience for both parties if the focus is of total escapism from our known reality. Embracing this mind set heightens all the senses and submission becomes more natural.

I demand full concentration from my subordinates and do not allow thoughts of the past or the future to surface. I expect all my submissives to focus on their present moment. I believe this is the most important time in any person's life - especially when that time is being spent in the presence of their Mistress.

I have - and use - techniques to help focus your mind with the aim of true natural submission....
Interaction in session is advantageous to ensuring an enjoyable and successful session for both parties. Though some submissives want - and need - to be silent and unresponsive for specific scenarios, total non-communication may give the impression that the slave is not enjoying the session and can even make the Mistress feel she has been wasting her time in certain circumstances.

If you are in any doubt whatsoever, ask prior to booking the session, or at the very latest during your consultation.

Abhorrent things I dislike:

Again, while this is not an exhaustive list, it is shorter and is in no particular order. This means that there will be many things not on this list that true submissives will be expected to know already.

Disrespectful, disloyal and insincere submissives

Submissives without a sense of humour

People who come to a Dominatrix, but would be better suited to the environs of a massage parlour

Slaves who think firstly of their own selfish needs, at the expense of their Mistress's wants, needs, desires and wishes

People who deliberately set out to mislead or time waste. If you cannot attend your session for whatever reason, a simple explanatory phone call or text message is all that is necessary and will be expected in all circumstances

Submissives who refuse to be open, honest and direct before an appointment or who cannot express their own wants and desires in consultation, and who later criticise the direction the session took!



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